I chose a career to prove I was smart enough

I chose a career to prove I was smart enough

As a kid, I was different from most of my family. 

I was emotional, sensitive, and intuitive. They were more practical or intellectual.

The school I went to in France emphasized rational and analytical intelligence.
This is the case with the French education system in general. 

As I reflect back on it now, I did not feel like I fully fit in or that being me was okay. 

So, I started to work hard to “fit in,” to feel loved and seen…and to prove I was “intelligent.” In school, I worked hard to be #1, unconsciously hoping I would finally be seen and accepted by doing so. 

But, it felt like it was never enough, so I kept working harder and harder…to be the best, to succeed, and to be seen.

To belong.

All of this was unconscious, yet it was driving a lot of my decisions and ways of being. Including my college and grad school choices.

And ultimately my career. 

I followed the same patterns of behavior in my career choices for 10+ years.

Either choosing career options to prove I was smart enough.
Or, when doing work I liked, such as User Experience research, putting lots of pressure on myself…

  • to prove I was intelligent enough.
  • to belong and be accepted by my colleagues and my managers, the same way I was longing to be accepted in my family.

I achieved great success in my career and life, working for one of the biggest Internet companies in the world at the time–Yahoo!–, becoming bilingual, and moving from France to Canada, and then the US.

But I reached a point where the “proving to be smart” was just not working anymore.

I was miserable at work. I knew this was not the right career path for me long term. This was just not sustainable. 

Something else was calling me.

Something, where I could be my full self at work–100% myself–without having to prove anymore, and where I could use ALL my natural gifts and fulfill my purpose.
Something that would allow me to leave my mark in the world, not someone else’s mark. 

Can you relate?

⏩ Are you a high achiever who is unconsciously using your career or business to prove you are intelligent enough? or to belong? to fit in?
⏩ Have your career decisions up to now been driven by that desire? 
⏩ Or, if you somewhat like your work, is there still a big part of you who is trying to prove that who you are is enough? 
⏩ Are you in a career where you cannot bring your whole self? and you have to pretend or put a mask on, leaving some parts of you behind?

I feel the pain of that. I get it. 

You are not alone. I’ve been there… and also, out of it.

I know the path out of this! 

Through my own journey, my training, and through guiding hundreds of people in my coaching practice, I’ve discovered the keys to getting out of this vicious cycle once and for all…
…So that you can finally uncover and live the career of your dreams, bring your full self, live your purpose, and make the contribution you are here to make.

This is why I’m taught my free masterclass “Unlock Your Next Level Dream Career” on Thursday, July 8.

To help you…or if not you, maybe someone you know–spouse, friend, relative, co-worker. 

In the masterclass, you will discover the secrets to aligning your unique talents with your unique purpose, so you can have a dream career making a positive difference in the world.

I share more about my own journey and my proven approach to supporting high-achieving professionals land the next career of their dreams.

>>  You can watch the replay until Monday July 12, 2021 at 11:59pm PT by signing up here

I’d love to have you watch it!
…or people you know who could benefit from it. Please do share this email with them. 

It is possible for you to have a dream career where you can bring your whole self, make a meaningful difference. and feel more than enough exactly as you are.

I want that for you. 

Isabelle 

P.S. In this masterclass, you will also learn: 

  • The #1 mistake high-achieving professionals make when trying to find their next career and how to avoid it.
  • A decision framework for reaching total clarity and confidence about your next career, no matter how long you’ve been searching.
  • The four elements of your unique career blueprint that will unlock your next dream career, most impactful work, and the confidence to go for it.
  • The five steps to go from bored and trapped in your career to thriving in a career you absolutely love that allows you to live your purpose and make the difference you are here to make.

>> Watch the replay now!

It’s here!! Live from Hawaii… my brand new masterclass

It’s here!! Live from Hawaii… my brand new masterclass

I’m excited to announce my brand new masterclass!

 I’ll be delivering it LIVE from Maui.

It’s FREE to attend. 

It will take place on Thursday, July 8 at 5 pm PT / 8 pm ET.
If you cannot join live, the replay will be available, so don’t let the day and time stop you from signing up!

I would love for you to join!

This training is the result of some labor of love I’ve been engaged in the past four months to provide even more value to you. The content is brand new and I’ll share things I’ve never shared before

—> If you have been curious about my approach and what gets my clients such powerful results, this is the BEST way to experience it at no cost.

—> If you already know and have experienced my work as a client, in my workshops, or on a private call, this is a great opportunity to deepen the work and get a new influx of inspiration on your journey.

This free masterclass is perfect for you if…

  • You are a high-achieving professional, entrepreneur, manager, or executive who has achieved great success but is bored and lacking passion for your current role or industry.
  • You feel trapped, lost, or confused in your career.
  • You want meaningful work that allows you to make a contribution and impact in the world, maybe leave a legacy, but you can’t figure out what that next work or career is.
  • You have so many ideas that you don’t know how to choose the right one.
  • You don’t know whether your current career, business, or industry is the right path for you or not.

* Even if this masterclass is primarily geared towards high-achieving and successful professionals, you will still get value from it even if you don’t identify as such. 


In this masterclass, I’ll share with you…

the secrets to aligning your unique talents with your unique purpose, so you can have a dream career making a positive difference in the world.
If you’ve been searching for this kind of meaning and freedom for a while and are starting to feel stuck or hopeless, I know this promise can seem far-fetched. But after years of helping hundreds of clients successfully land their dream careers, I know there truly is one key element that consistently unlocks this hidden path and I can’t wait to share it with you!
 

You will learn:

  • The #1 mistake high-achieving professionals make when trying to find their next career and how to avoid it.
  • A decision framework for reaching total clarity and confidence about your next career, no matter how long you’ve been searching.
  • The four elements of your unique career blueprint that will unlock your next dream career, most impactful work, and the confidence to go for it.
  • The five steps to go from bored and trapped in your career to thriving in a career you absolutely love that allows you to live your purpose and make the difference you are here to make.

—> Share with people you know (friends, family, spouse, coworkers) who may benefit from it.
You can forward them this email or share the registration page: https://mailchi.mp/brilliantseeds/dreamcareer

I can’t wait to share this powerful content with you!

Isabelle

Work with me to create a career you love!

Work with me to create a career you love!

“Working with Isabelle has proven one of the best investments I’ve made in myself, ever.

I have so much clarity about myself now – I really know who I am, like who I am, and understand myself on a much deeper level. I know what I want to do, and I’ve developed my timeline for achieving it.  To think back to how lost and confused I was at the beginning of the year compared to now, I can’t believe how much I’ve grown.  I don’t even recognize the woman I was four months ago. I am thankful I trusted the approach and stuck with it.  Most of all, I am grateful for Isabelle and her process.”

~ Chris H., Omaha, NE

Chris graduated from my Roadmap To A Career You Love group program last June. She rocked it!!

Read her full testimonial at the bottom of this email. 

Do you wanna get the same results as Chris in only a few months from now?

Work with me to create a career you love!

(or forward this email to people you know –friends, relatives, colleagues– who need help creating the career they love.)

My highly acclaimed proven program Roadmap To A Career You Love is open for enrollment right now for less than a week.

This is a step-by-step program that provides you with the foundation, tools, resources, coaching support and community to help you create a roadmap to a career you love, from the inside out.

STEP 1: Discover Your Inner Compass

Discover your unique talents, gifts, and essence so that you can align your career and life with who you really are.

  • Get The Key Ingredients  For Career Fulfillment
  • Identify Your Unique Strengths & Talents
  • Clarify Your Unique Operating Manual
  • Create Your Authentic Self Blueprint

STEP 2: Identify Your Ideal Career

Identify the ideal career that is uniquely tailored to you, your talents and purpose, so that you never doubt again the direction of your career.

  • Claim Your Purpose & See Your Impact
  • Clarify The Vision For Your Ideal Career & Lifestyle

STEP 3: Create A Roadmap To Your Dream Career

Create a personalized action plan so that you know exactly what steps to take to create the career you love.

  • Leverage Your Assets & Assess Your Needs
  • Create A Customized Roadmap To Your Dream Career

Like Chris, you will build the confidence to achieve your ideal career so that you can leave your fears and doubts behind!

>> Learn more about the program and apply.

I’d love to have you join!

Intrigued but have questions for me?

No problem. Comment below and ask away! I’m happy to help.

To your brilliance,

Isabelle

P.S. Doors close on Wednesday, October 17, in less than a week. I don’t want you to miss this invitation.  Click here for the details.

P.P.S Here is Chris’ full testimonial.

“Working with Isabelle has proven one of the best investments I’ve made in myself, ever.  While I’ve worked for a wonderful company for almost 10 years, with lots of opportunities, I haven’t felt fulfilled for quite a long time. I felt adrift, without direction, and really started to question what it was I actually want to do.

I opted for the combined group and one-on-one session option. Everything done over the course of the class builds on itself: homework done on our own, group calls and workshops, and then one-on-one sessions with Isabelle.

We’d reference our homework in class, often breaking out into smaller groups to do additional activities.  Over the course, we got to know our fellow classmates, giving and receiving feedback, helping each other throughout the process.  The additional perspectives were an unexpected bonus for me, and greatly appreciated. My biggest breakthroughs happened during our one-on-one calls.  Isabelle is a deeply caring, intuitive, and nurturing coach with a unique approach – she has this way of calling you out in a loving and empathetic way that makes you step back and reassess, but without any judgement.  One of the biggest breakthroughs was learning how to sit with my emotions, really feel them, and then realize I had the answers within myself all along.

I have so much clarity about myself now – I really know who I am, like who I am, and understand myself on a much deeper level. I know what I want to do, and I’ve developed my timeline for achieving it.  To think back to how lost and confused I was at the beginning of the year compared to now, I can’t believe how much I’ve grown.  I don’t even recognize the woman I was four months ago.  I am thankful I trusted the approach and stuck with it.  Most of all, I am grateful for Isabelle and her process.”

~ Chris H., Omaha, NE

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5 of my favorite tips to go beyond limiting beliefs

“I don’t have what it take to be an entrepreneur.”

“I don’t have what it takes to be a leader.”

“I don’t have what it takes to….” (Fill in the blank)

I hear that a lot among my clients. This deeply ingrained limiting belief that we don’t have what it takes to be or do something we are longing for. This stops us from going after what we truly want and doing the Career of our dreams.

I had one of these myself four years ago as I was exploring my career options after being laid off from Yahoo! I was thinking: “I don’t have what it takes to be an entrepreneur and start my own business” even if, deep down, it is what I was longing for.

Today, 4 years after, I ‘m happy to say that I founded my own business and I have a thriving coaching practice. I’m the CEO of my business! It is mind blowing for me to think about how I was able to turn my limiting belief around to do what I love the most.

I want to help you turn your limiting beliefs around too! So that you can make your career dreams come alive.

In this video, I share 5 of my favorite tips to identify and go beyond your limiting beliefs, so that you can do what you love the most.

Enjoy and share what you discovered for yourself in the comments below!

Isabelle