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THIS may be holding you back. It did for me.

Since my grandma's death a month ago, I've been remembering all the sweet memories of my time with her. I found this picture of me when I was 4 in front of my grandparents' house. My grandma took it. You may wonder: What has this to do with going for the career and life of your dreams? It has EVERYTHING to do with it.  In the past 10 years, I've ...

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One of the biggest roadblocks to discovering the career you love

Do you know what is one of the BIGGEST ROADBLOCKS to discovering the Career You Love?  ....and that I've seen in so many of my clients, especially when they seem really stuck. Well, I can tell you what it is NOT. It is NOT: - a lack of clarity (even if people think it is, and at a superficial level it feels that way) - a lack of skills or talents - a ...

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Our worst enemy is inside

Our worst enemy is not outside ourselves, but inside. Every time we judge or blame ourself, buy other people's judgements about ourselves, wish we were different than who we are, put unrealistic demands on ourselves and blame ourselves for not fulfilling them, or let others put unrealistic demands on ourselves, we act as our very own enemy.

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The most painful is our own self-judgement, not others’

When we are judged negatively by someone else (or afraid of being judged), the most painful is not so much the other person's judgement (or imagined judgement) than our own negative judgement on ourselves, and how this external judgement hit us at a place where we are already judging ourselves harshly. Being aware of our own negative judgement on ourselves and ...

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